Advice to Ladies: 10 Things You Should Do When You Man Loses His Erection

Hey girl, have you for once experienced this moment when you are on the motion with your partner and suddenly his tires goes flat? you are not alone. This kind of experiences are really frustrating to ladies but they happen.


So here are the few things you are required to do to help him rise up again. You need to complete your journey. LOL.

1. Don’t put the blames on Yourself:

When a man suddenly goes flat on a woman during the motion drive, most ladies mistakenly think its because they are not attracted to the man. No a se'x and relationship expert Ian Kerner once advice that a man going flaccid because he is not turned on by his partner is “relatively rare compared to the other more factors”

2. Be kind to your Man: 

It is not easy for some men gathering such momentum during intercourse. A man who is stressed with a lot of problems will really perform badly on you if you are not kind to him. Calling your man all sort of names or making some sympathetic comments like OMG! What’s the problem? Why can’t you stay for one minutes? You are not a real man, UGH! Never mind, game’s over. These kinda comments makes your man goes flat.

3. Help him Identify His Problems:

You need to help your man figure out his problems. There are so many things that are responsible for a weak or loss of e’rection during intercourse. Nervousness, stress, depression, alcohol, smoking, drugs or medication, low self-esteem, low testosterone, excess body weight.

4. Health Issues:

Diseases like diabetes, heart disease, multiple sclerosis, and other diseases and conditions can affect penile function. Go for a test and treat any disease if discovered.

5. Switch to Foreplay:

When your man suddenly losses his hardness, the proper thing to do is switch to foreplay or other methods that will increase his confidence. Transition to foreplay like orals, using toys or anything that can bring the feelings back.

6. Laugh and talk about it One on One:

To ladies, we know it is very disappointing and frustrating when your man burst his tires on the motion. Allow his feelings to relax before you approach him to share your feelings about what happened. If he understands and really want to help himself, encourage him to share his feelings and problems so that both of you can solve it together.

7. Visit Your Doctor Together:

 If your man regularly losses his erection, and this happens all the time, it is advice-able for him to see a doctor. You should go with him together to see the doctor and get the problem solved.

The doctors are trained to find out the underlying cause of the erectile dysfunction. Daniel Shokes, professor of Urology at Cleverland clinic, tells WebMD that “The patients who are the most successful are those where the sexual partner is a true partner ” he said “If the woman can come in, that’s a huge help.”

8. You can also Get a Self-help Herbal Solution:

There are many options for treating this kind of problems because it almost happens to all men. Billions of dollars had been spent and will still be spent to proffer solutions to these kinda problems. You can try most of the therapy and non-medical solutions out there and it they didn’t work before you go for the blue pills.

9. Feed Him with the Right Food: 

What kind of food do you feed your man with? Feeding your man with food that don’t provide the right nutrients like energy will never make him perform better. If you keep on cooking rice and noodles for you man, he will find it difficult maintaining an erection.

Am not saying rice and noodle (indomie) are bad, but he need to eat some fruits that increase libido and testosterone too. Fruits like avocado, onions, garlic, almonds, steak, sweet potatoes, sesame seeds, water melon.

10. Get Him to Exercise More:

You should convince him to workout and flex his muscles, this is also one important remedy to erectile dysfunction. Doing at least 20 push ups every morning is ok to send blood flowing through the veins.

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